In Texas, cemeteries are great open swathes of land, baking in the sun, with gravestones spread out in geometric rows on bald, blanched grass. They have main gates and wire fences, and no one ever goes there unless they have sad business. This seems to me a terrible way to inter the dead and to display the humanity of their past and the reality of their faith.
In the UK, cemeteries are old and half-overgrown, tumble-down gardens of green, with trees and vines and grand, black-shaded angels of stone peeping out from under weathered wings. A casual observer can wander in them at will, reading names and dates, imagining the vast history and impact of each human life, wondering endlessly how many souls around you are singing in heaven (or not, I suppose. But that is sad). In cemeteries, you can meet people named Hephzibah...which is a feat not to be accomplished anywhere else in the modern world (albeit, perhaps for good reason). You also meet a good many Charleses, Elizabeths, Jameses, Annes, and so forth.
When I stopped on the way back from ballet last Saturday, there were snow drops growing all over the graveyard, looking so springy.
Below, looking from the graveyard toward the tower in which I have all of my classes:
Some of the stones and monuments speak Christ's hope back to the living:This one above reads, at the bottom, "I know that my Redeemer liveth," and I always hear it sung to me the way Handel set it.
Overtime, I have developed some favorite graves. There is a lady named Isaline, which is unconventional and lovely.
There is also another one which I walk past almost every time, though I refrain from posting a picture because it belongs to a modern and still-living family, not to the 1800's. It is a family grave, and just in the middle of the names is a little girl named Emma, who died at only 5 years old. Her grandmother's name follows after her own, which twists my heart every time. It sounds so sad, but the family has filled in the area in front of the headstone with bright silk flowers and toys. There are figurines and fairies, puppets and bunnies and kitties, pinwheels and peonies and pansies, and it looks like a child's fairy garden, only briefly paused in play, and soon to be resumed. Emma, were she alive, would be 26 today, but in an odd way, her beautiful kindergartener's playground in the peaceful green of Welford Road is almost completely happy.
And, lastly, I share two pictures of my all-time favorite grave in the cemetery. I rather look forward to meeting the members of this family one day, in the glorified bodies in which we both believe!